Malaysian men who call wives ugly could face jail

"KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia — It soon could be a crime for Malaysian men to call their wives ugly, a women’s rights group and a news report said Thursday.

The governmental Women’s Development Depart

ment plans to ask Parliament to ban "emotional violence" against women, who currently have legal protection against physical assault only, The Star newspaper reported.

Women’s groups told the department that husbands who "demonstrate a pattern of causing mental and psychological damage" should face counseling, fines and jail terms, Ivy Josiah, director of the Women’s Aid Organization, told The Associated Press."

this is really wtf.

so dun call your future wife ugly, she has the right to put you into jail.

hmm wondering whatabout Men's Rights Group?

what if the wife call her husband "lembik", "no manhood" ?

can we sue our wives?

it can cause mental and psychological damage also wert.

so, even ur wife ugly also must tell her she is beautiful.

a wife must always tell her husband that he is a superman

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almost cry when watching this video >.<

grateful for what i have

Recent Issue

Bought Dale Carnegie's book yesterday
the title caught my attention
How to Win Friends & Influence People



As david said, human relations are important
i deeply agreed with him
what i believe is,
we all should learn how to deal with people
Donald Trump was probably the SiFu
in dealing with people.

i just finished the first chapter of the book
and then i reflect on what i've done recently.
and ofcoz i regret for what i did.

Carnegie says that criticism is futile.
Criticism puts a person on the defensive state
and makes him strive to justify himself.
It is dangerous coz it wounds a person's precious pride,
and hurts his sense of importance.

Criticisms are like homing pigeons, they always return home.
the person we are going to correct and condemn will probably
justify himself and we in return, get condemned.

Abraham Lincoln was regarded as the most perfect ruler of men on earth.
However, he used to criticise others via letter and in newspaper.
One day, one of his victim (James Shields) confronted him,
he wanted a fight with Lincoln, but Lincoln cant get out of this,
he was given the choice of weapons, and prepared to fight to the death.
at the last minute, their seconds interrupted and stopped the duel.

After this incident, Lincoln stop criticise others.
This is one of his quote after the incident:
"Don't criticise others, they are just what we would be under similar circumstances."

and recently i criticise someone badly
i criticise what he should not do
i even condemn him
and ofcoz,
in return i get condemned.

we try to justify ourself.
we wound each others
in terms of precious pride and our sense of importance.

well..
what done is done
i cant change what i've done
so i gonna learn from it
and hope it will never repeat again in the future

i apologize to those i condemn
sorry if i hurt your feeling.
'criticisms are like homing pigeons, they always return home.'
when i criticise others, im the first one who kena.

finally,
everyone of us have our own precious pride,
a sense of importance.
we cant ignore others' pride and their sense of importance.
therefore, we shud respect each others.


exam is near,
lets put all this aside,
concentrate on study


Have nice day ~~~

exam T_T

EXAM IS NEAR !!!
stop the crap
FOCUS ON STUDY

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P1,2 & 3
come babe
=.=

pissed

been really pissed of someone's attitude.
stop fucking judge people!
u stop fucking expect what others should do
i believe that everyone of us may do things differently

my way of doing things (study) is different.
if u think my way of doing things or study is wrong or weird....
just look at my result, result dont lie

maybe its my fault too..
i seldom show the real me..
even my parents dont knw.
i like acting sakai in front of people, coz i like the laughter
i like to make people laugh

when i wanna achieve something, i will find my way to get it
i will do it quietly and will act innocent in front of people
even my parents and friends
i seldom share out to others for what i want

why i got pissed?
not because someone backstab me
coz this always happen

when people do things without taking into account of the consequences
im really pissed.
when people think he is superior, he is always right
im fucking pissed.
when people failed to achieve something and start blaming
im real fucking pissed.
when u dun know anything and start judging people
im pissed.
someone who is 'too care' for his reputation
im pissed.

those who dun respect others, even someone is real sakai, just keep it in urself, dun go to the crowd and spread out like ur fucking blardy business
yes, even i know someone has been a real sakai, but i will never tell others how sakai he is
i will just keep it myself
how they act is their business, if u're an asshole, den go tell others and spread it out like as though ur fucking business.

well, others may think that they are doing things correctly
but dun judge others if they do it differently..
just judge on result, result dont lie.

in college, one lecturer for example
his way of teaching may be good for certain group
he likes to spend first hour of the lecture class
"motivate" students
when i talk to him, he thinks he is always right

to know whether u're doing things correctly,
just look at the result! result dont lie
this lecturer, he keep teaching his way
well, what happen? the passing rate of his class was blardy low
who's fault u think? student? lecturer?
i think both's fault

i spent one and a half year for part 2 ACCA
first sitting i took 4 papers, passed 2 and failed 2
in second sitting, i took 3 but failed all
after that i sat down quietly and assess what is working and not working
and finally in third sitting, i passed all remaining 4 papers.

during the year, i know which class is not important, which class i can skip
but i do my own ways, if i follow what the crowd do,
i will end up like that, unless i do things differently
actions produce results
actions are always different, if u follow what others do, u will achieve what they achieve
i assess who is working and who is not working
and den i do it my way
so for those who know me
i always skip classes, i even skip class to play dota
but i know what im doing
i have set clear goals for what i want
if u judge a book by its cover,
im an asshole who skip classes,
and i will never pass my exams

but got one particular person,
he is so convinced that im a sakai
well, i dun really care what my friends say about me
but he is close to me, he knw me for quite long ago
but just that what he did recently pissed me, and felt disappointed


so what i wanna say is
DUN JUDGE OTHERS BY THEIR APPEARANCE
if u're open minded, try study them, look at the results they produced.
as i said, result dont lie.

when im writing this, im damn pissed,
so just wanna release out here

Book for sale

The Intelligent Investor by Benjamin Graham.
Preface & Appendix by Warren Buffet.

Plan to sell this book, pretty good condition.
Original price was RM79.90.
I'm selling it for RM 50.00

Anyone interested?